Yes, this can be difficult to do. Big box stores tout sales, variety and availability. Sometimes there’s no getting around this. It’s a reality that not everyone can shop local. But for those who can, shopping local can be a really fun experience. Not only are you boosting your local economy, but you can find unique, one-of-a-kind gifts. Local gift bazaars have homemade crafts made by experienced artists, and you can really find ideas for the person who has everything.  

 

 

Speaking of the person who has everything, gifting experiences can be a way to think outside the box. Would your person like to experience an escape room? A massage? What about gifting someone a free night of babysitting? Or an IOU for a baked good of their choosing made by you? You can form experiences on a limited budget, or you can spend money as you feel comfortable. People remember experiences more than “things.”

 

 

Many people love the bright lights, joy and festivities that go on around Christmastime. Not everyone does. For many, the holidays can mean loss, loneliness and grief. Both sentiments are valid. A Longest Night, also called Blue Christmas, service happens on the longest night of the year on or around the winter solstice. It’s a time to honor the spirits of those who may be grieving, lonely or sad, and the service also calls us to hope in Christ.  I believe the benefits of going to a Longest Night service not only help people in the midst of grief and loss hear out loud the emotions they may be experiencing, but it also helps show others who dwell in the joy of the season to hear what it may be like for others in their church family or community.

 

 

There are so many things that have become rituals for folks at Christmastime. Some people always make certain foods or go to certain church services. My family always went to the movies after the festivities were done! To shake things up, why not try something new?  You could try a different tradition’s Christmas Eve service, order in food instead of making your own if it causes you too much stress, or drive around to see the lights after dark. Having new things to look forward to for the following year can be exciting. And if they don’t serve you, you can always try something new next year!

 

 

At Christmastime, a lot of non-profits need volunteers. It might involve delivering food, serving food or showing up to a warming center and being a friendly face. While I know lots of families can’t make this work, consider making a contribution to those on the margins this Christmas, be it through philanthropy or donating your time or items. Many of us have abundance, and there are those of us who need extra help. Keep your ear to the ground. Who is struggling this Christmas? What are ways you can help without making it about yourself? Your time and money can be a true blessing to others this Christmas.